Princess Ruth Komuntale with her
fiance Christopher Thomas at St. Johns’ Cathedral in Fort Portal town, Kabarole
District yesterday. Today, all roads lead to Gweri village, about five
kilometres off the Fort Portal-Kamwenge road, for her introduction party. The
royal wedding will be held at the cathedral on Saturday. PHOTO BY GEOFFREY
MUTEGEKI.
By FELIX BASIIME
Posted Thursday, November 15 2012 at 02:00 (http://www.monitor.co.ug/News/National/Komuntale-s-giveaway-party-today/-/688334/1620256/-/item/1/-/14w45n7/-/index.html)
In Summary
At least 1,000 guests, including the President, have been
invited to the giveaway ceremony of the Tooro Kingdom princess.
KABAROLE
Today all roads lead to Gweri Village in Karambi Sub-county, Kabarole
District for Princess Ruth Komuntale’s giveaway ceremony.
The function will be held at the home of Mr Charles Kamurasi, the paternal
uncle of Princess Komuntale. Mr Kamurasi is the omusuuga (head of the royal
clan, the Babiito).
The venue is about five kilometres off Fort Portal-Kamwenge road but to
avoid heavy traffic, one can use the eight kilometre road off Katcwamba Trading
Centre on Fort Portal-Kasese road and go past St. Leo’s College Kyegobe.
The road through St. Leo’s Kyegobe has been renovated but the venue lacks
piped water and efforts to provide it, by National Water and Sewage Corporation
(NWSC) before the function have been futile. The organisers are relying on the
police water tanker to supply water today.
The venue has always relied on solar power but efforts are currently being
made by Umeme to extend power to the site. Mr Kamurasi’s home has been
renovated and the old furniture has been replaced with new one.
At least 1,000 guests have been invited and these include the President and
other dignitaries. According to the organising committee, the giveaway and
wedding ceremonies will cost about Shs1.5b.
Prince Isaac Rabwoni Amooti, the secretary of the royal Babiito clan, says
cultural values will be fully observed.
Rabwoni says the giveaway ceremony will be preceded by the kujumbura,
performed by Omujwera Musuuga, a paternal uncle to Princess Komuntale.
Traditionally, the king is not allowed to attend this ceremony so King Oyo
Nyimba will not be present for the function.Princess Komuntale will don bark
cloth, traditional wear of the Babiito before she sits on Kamurasi’s lap. “It
is a sign of good luck,” says Rabwoni.
According to Rabwoni, the bridegroom and his party will be led by Mr Katenta
Apuuli, a former ambassador, who will lead his side through the culture and
rituals of Tooro.
Today, Christopher Thomas, the bridegroom will be given a pet name (Amooti) and
will join one of the more than 90 clans of Tooro.
Later, celebrations will go on throughout the night where the royal dance,
Amakondere, music blaring out of wooden flutes and drums will be played.
Rabwoni says such a function last took place on December 18, 1965 during the
wedding of Princess Elizabeth Mpanja, daughter to Komuntale’s grandfather,
Omukama George Kamurasi Rukidi III, to Lt. Col. William Ndahendekire.
Tooro traditional wedding rituals
Should Christopher Thomas and his entourage arrive after midday, they risk
being turned away because in Tooro tradition no marriage can be allowed when
the sun is overhead but if they arrive early the brides family has the right to
keep them waiting provided they send notification of their arrival in time.
Once they are allowed into the compound they will be required to carry two
calabashes of local brew for “opening” the gates ( (Kukingura irembo).
Upon arrival, they will be welcomed. Then the spokesperson for the bride’s
family will ask the grooms entourage to select nine members (Omwenda) who will
be moved into the main house where they will be served gourds of milk, coffee
berries as a sign of friendship.
All the other guests in the tent will also be served milk. Tradition demands
that you drink all the milk served to you, it is considered uncouth to leave
half a glass. Then negotiations will commence, the hosts start by pretending
they were attending their own meeting and only allowed and served the guests
out of courtesy and Tooro hospitality.
Then the spokesperson pleads and announces reason for their visit. There
about six steps in the negotiation for a girl’s hand in marriage and at each
stage a large calabash of local brew (Tonto) will be presented. These days that
is accompanied by other modern drinks like bottled beer and soda (considered
and announced as juice for the mothers).
Bride wealth is paid in cattle and the number might vary depending on the
bride’s family and the understanding with the groom’s family. The wealthier the
family, the more the cattle one might have to pay.
It is understood that the royal family considered waiving the bride wealth
requirement for Thomas. This could be partly because all wealth in the kingdom
is presumed to belong to the king.
At least three rounds of beautiful girls will be paraded in succession for
the groom to pick the one he wants to be his wife.
Once the bride has been identified, the bride price is negotiated and the
father’s consent granted, then the girl will also be asked to confirm that it
is indeed the man she wants to marry before the family can accept any gifts and
the bride wealth.
A meal will be served to all after the negotiations and a party will follow
until the last guest leaves.
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